Saturday, October 19, 2013

Loving yourself, true beauty, and the wandering eye.

Well to start off, I may not be a size zero but I am a gorgeous woman regardless. Beauty isn't about appearance. That is only a part of it. Sometimes I wish that people could stop thinking with the wrong head instead for a few minutes. Lets just come to reality people, not all women look like Porn Stars in the real world. Since that is the demographic that a lot of guys are looking for it seems, it is pretty disheartening. Do you think that this doesn't hurt our feelings?

Granted, I am not going to sit here and say that I am perfect. I definitely think that Jax Teller from Sons Of Anarchy is the hottest guy ever. Having said that, I am not really looking for a man like that in the real world. It is not because I believe I couldn't get a man like that, but I actually prefer men who have quarks and are not considered "Perfect" like the media makes everyone believe. The reason I say this is because beauty really isn't skin deep. There is so much more to a person.

When I find a man that I am attracted to, this includes the appearance and personality, whole package. I am not concerned about telling other men how good they look. I do not have a wandering eye, and if you ever start to feel like you are complimenting other women or men on their sexy looks when you have claimed to like someone, then please have a heart to heart with yourself. It is important to be an honest person, and when it comes down to it even more important to be honest with yourself.

I think that looking is okay. This is human nature, I wouldn't expect anyone with hormones to not be attracted to the opposite sex, or even same sex for that matter. The difference is, is that if it is not acted upon then what is the actual problem? There is none. This man or woman you are with, will be coming home to you every night. This has to say something. But people are so afraid of the truth, and so afraid of actually coming to terms with themselves and what they want. Like my dad has always said, people always trade what they want for the moment for what they want long term.

I love who I am and the saying is true that "If you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best."  I personally just believe that if you are not crazy about the woman or man that you are with, then you probably shouldn't be with them. Not only that, but how in the world could a woman or man be themselves when they are worrying about matching up to these people that you are wandering to?

I have grown so much, and I am such a strong woman in my life today. I know what I deserve and I am truly to the point where I will not accept anything less. I have to be realistic. Even though I am a hopeless romantic, the world has proven to me that you can think one thing, and something completely different is about to happen. I think a lot of men and women could relate to this, so I thought I would share.

Please remember that this article is not bashing on any type of woman. We are all beautiful, this is about people not being true to what they want, or just not being honest about it. I also think that beauty comes in so many different forms. But what about what is in their hearts? Their stories? You would be very surprised how crazy you can be about someone even if they are not up to "Perfect" standards. If you love yourself, everything falls into place. This is the truth in life and if you keep a positive attitude, you can have a life you always dreamed of having. Thank you for reading.